Congratulations Card Messages: A Guide

A congratulations card message is a note. It names the event. It gives a wish. Most messages run 10 to 30 words. Write with a pen. Send the card within one week of the event.

Message Length

Keep the message under 50 words. A wedding card can hold 20 to 40 words. A graduation card can hold 15 to 30 words. A promotion card can hold 10 to 25 words.

Tone

Use a tone that matches the event. State the achievement. Add a wish. Avoid jokes about failure. Avoid sarcasm.

Examples by Occasion

Wedding

Example: Congratulations on your marriage. May you have a life together.

Graduation

Example: Congratulations on your graduation. Good luck in your next step.

Promotion

Example: Congratulations on your promotion. Well done.

New Baby

Example: Congratulations on the new baby. Wishing your family health.

Retirement

Example: Congratulations on your retirement. Enjoy your time.

What to Include

Mistakes

Card shops sell congratulations cards. Hallmark and American Greetings print messages. You can write your own. The Emily Post Institute advises prompt notes.

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